Interaction can be positive or negative, however. If there are multiple
children, it's very likely that they will get into fights and
arguments. That tension that exists between siblings can be dissipated,
but it may take some trial and error to figure out what works best to
get them to stop fighting. Some parents have success by turning sibling
fights into laughter.
If they're making faces at each other, put a
mirror in front of them both, and pretty soon the whole thing will turn
into a joke, and the fight will be over. If two siblings are fighting
over something, try just taking it away from both for a while. Also, be
aware that the older sibling isn't always the one being aggressive and
picking on the younger one, sometimes it's the other way around. Often,
parents make the mistake of assuming that the younger and smaller one
is the victim, and this sets up even more tension in the family and
creates a situation where the younger sibling can take advantage of the
situation.
Interaction between child and parent is often a learning opportunity.
When we interact with our children, they will naturally see what we
believe in and what our values are. It's natural for them to be
curious, and this is a great opportunity for instilling those same
values in your child.
Also, remember that interaction goes both ways. Your grade schooler is
able to communicate with you, and wants to do so. Make an environment
where they feel free to ask questions and express themselves. Give the
best answers you can that are appropriate to the child's age, but be
truthful, even if the answer is difficult. Your child is curious, and
encourage them to be able to ask anything and explore new ideas. They
will naturally come up with ideas of their own, which may contradict
yours. Make this an opportunity for a good discussion, where the child
is allowed to say what she feels without being interrupted or told she
is wrong right away.
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